Working with Shy or Withdrawn Students
September 1997
The Study
A degree of shyness is normal for children whenever social expectations are new
or ambiguous, but shyness becomes a problem when withdrawal is the usual behavior, and the
child is labeled as "shy." A number of studies have focused on the causes of
shyness and described coping strategies for teachers to use in working effectively with
these students. Dr. Jere Brophy,
University Distinguished Professor of Teacher Education, summarizes this research in his
book, Teaching Problem Students.
The Findings
Children are susceptible to self-consciousness when: (1) the social situation
makes them feel conspicuous or psychologically unprotected; (2) they are expected to
perform in public or are being evaluated; (3) they have not developed effective
conversational skills; (4) they have experienced repeated failure, mistreatment or
rejection from adults or peers. Teachers, peers, and out-of-school organizations can help
shy and withdrawn children by providing self-concept support, encouragement, and
opportunities for them to interact and contribute in positive ways. Seating a shy child
among friendly classmates, engaging shy children in cooperative classroom activities,
minimizing the possibilities for stress or embarrassment and involving them in frequent
private talks are some simple strategies teachers can use to increase the responsiveness
of shy or withdrawn children. Some of these students, however, may need direct instruction
in social skills to enable them to participate more comfortably and freely in the
classroom.
What It Means to You
Most strategies to help shy and withdrawn students are easy to implement, and
they complement basic classroom processes. Although most teachers develop an intuitive
understanding of some of the needs of shy or withdrawn students, many teachers can learn
to meet these needs more fully by systematically using the strategies recommended by these
studies. For example, a teacher might want to: determine the interests of shy students and
use these interests as the basis for learning activities; display their good work for
others to see in the classroom; partner them with a classmate who is popular and interacts
frequently with peers; help shy children set social development goals and assist them in
learning needed social skills; take time to talk briefly with them one-on-one each day; or
give them a designated role that will cause them to interact with others.
More Information
You can get more information on working with shy or withdrawn students by
consulting Brophy, J. (1996) Teaching Problem Students, New York: Guilford.
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